Blaise is a marketer, architect and devoted dad to Atlas. We learn more about his incredible career and loved hearing about his parenting tips.
Describe a typical work day?
I wake up at 5.30 to jog in my neighborhood, I get my exercise out of the way because when I get back my son Atlas wakes up. After breakfast, we head to Big and Tiny at Second Home in Hollywood. Once I drop off Atlas in the Big and Tiny pods, I settle in the courtyard or on the roof at Second Home to check emails and catch-up on any overnight or earlier timezone developments.
At 1pm I go to the Big and Tiny pods and feed Atlas his lunch after he wakes up from his morning nap. I then focus on an afternoon of work before picking up Atlas at 4.30pm and driving home. I love to cook for the family and once Atlas is in bed, I catch up with my partner or we like to watch TV with a glass of wine (we have been watching the shocking the NXIVM documentary on HBO Max).
What would be your tip(s) for any new working parent?
The biggest game-changer for me, especially during the most intense pandemic restrictions, have been to just own the time where you can’t get much done. My partner is an essential worker, so I was at home with our son for the most of each day.
At first, I was trying to work and parent simultaneously during his wake windows. Perhaps others are better at multitasking than I, but I found I wasn’t doing either working or parenting very effectively and it left me feeling down on myself and generally disappointed with how each day was going. I resolved to just be a parent during the time when he needed engagement.
Rather than having the laptop out while he tried to get my attention from the floor, we went on walks and I gave him (mostly) undivided attention. I found the additional work time that was required in the evening or at night did not significantly increase, and I felt much better about the work I was doing and the kind of parent I was able to be.
What are your favorite things to do as a family in Los Angeles?
We love packing a picnic and walking around the CalTech campus in Pasadena with Atlas in the stroller. There is a lovely pond filled with turtles that is a big time attraction for the kids and the architecture and grounds are a peaceful respite for the adults.
How do you take time for yourself? (When you get time for yourself!)
I don’t get too much, but my partner is really supportive of me paddling out to surf at least once per week. Usually I set out before sunrise on either Saturday or Sunday to meet up with a buddy or two somewhere in West Malibu for a few waves. I can still usually be back home in time for lunch and an active afternoon with the family.
How do you deal with failure?
In the abstract, I usually beat myself up about it for a time and then resolve to never let it happen again. More tangibly, I usually seek some intense physical activity like a hilly trail run or a marathon surf session. Compensating with a bit of time in isolation is also helpful for me, a kind of monastic reflection period, whether through those physical activities or a long drive–something along those lines.
What has been your biggest achievement professionally?
While working at an architecture firm in Paris some five years ago, I got to contribute to the team working on the Louvre Abu Dhabi, which opened at the beginning of 2018. In particular, I developed an algorithm that optimized the design for the Grand Vestibule, the first gallery in the procession of the museum, and the result is what you see built there today! I even have a tattoo on my right forearm to commemorate its completion.
(Courtesy of The National)
What are your hopes for 2021?
I hope that we will get a chance to be a family out from under the dark cloud of pandemic. Our son was only out of the hospital for about six-weeks when LA went into lockdown. While I definitely look forward to the day when we can eat at a cafe or ride public transportation, not having family nearby has been particularly complicated since he hasn’t got to spend much time at all with relatives. I am most hopeful that will change in 2021.