Motherhood – Big & Tiny

Team Spotlight – Miss Monica

December 2, 2020December 2, 2020 by B_and_T

Monica joined the Big and Tiny in Summer 2020 but it feels she’s been in the family forever! She looks after the pre-school group at our Santa Monica location. Read on to learn more about Monica!

Describe yourself in two sentences.
I think I would describe myself as gregarious, hard-working, and passionate. I take pride in my ability to cultivate and nurture my personal and professional relationships, and I always try to put my best efforts toward taking care of the people and things that are important to me.

What brings you the most joy about working with children?
What a difficult question! There are so many beautiful and exciting aspects about working with little ones. I would have to say that the one thing that brings me the greatest pleasure is having the opportunity to witness a child develop any kind of new understanding. This could be anything from grasping a challenging educational concept, acquiring new social/interpersonal skills, or even accomplishing the seemingly simple task of learning how to tie their own shoes. In a child’s eyes, every new accomplishment, big or small, means the world to them. They are in a state of constant learning and development, and it is an absolute joy for me to witness it.

What is the biggest challenge about working with children?
While working with children is (in my opinion) the best opportunity one could receive, it certainly has its challenges. One of the most heartbreaking things to witness is when a child internalizes a mistake or perceived failure as a personal shortcoming. When they begin to believe that because they can’t accomplish something that is seemingly easy for others to accomplish, or if a classmate tells them that they don’t want to be their friend anymore, it can feel like the end of the whole world to them. So, my fellow educators and I always do our best to help them understand that no matter what, they are wonderful, capable human beings that are cherished and loved without a doubt.

Describe your day at Big and Tiny?
Each day is always so different from the last, so it’s always a constant surprise! Typically, my day will begin with me greeting my wonderful coworkers. We always make sure to check in and see how everyone is feeling. Next, I begin to prepare for the day by getting materials ready for class. Afterwards, I get to greet my little ones and their families, which is my favorite part of the day! They are (usually) so excited and happy to see everyone and tell us what’s on their minds. Next, we begin our day with circle time, which consists of songs, books, games, and/or movement activities based on our theme of the week. Later, we enjoy a snack and some free play before we move onto literacy or math. Afterwards, we do some cool and totally messy sensory activities before lunch. To be honest, the mess is half of the fun. Later on, we do some art, games, and reading. Lastly, we end our day in Tinyland playing silly games, listening to music, making art, or doing whatever crazy fun we decide to get into that day!

What is your favorite activity to do? And what’s your favorite song?
My absolute favorite activity that I’ve done with my kids so far would have to be our gratitude tree. Before Thanksgiving break, we sat around our “tree” in Tinyland and took turns telling the class about one person or thing that we were grateful for. We would then write down what they shared on a leaf and the children would tape their leaves onto our tree. It was such a pleasure listening to the little ones really get the chance reflect and share what they value the most. Other times it was just plain funny to watch them soul-search until they finally decided that they were most grateful for roller coasters or something silly! We added to our gratitude tree every day since the beginning of November, and it was such a joy to watch our tree grow with each passing day.

What’s your life motto?
I’m not sure I would say that I have a life motto, but one quote that I hold dear to my heart is:
“The two most important days of our lives are the day we were born and the day we find out why.” – Mark Twain
I am fortunate enough to have discovered my purpose in life. I know in my heart that I am supposed to work with children in some capacity for the rest of my life. It brings me the utmost pride, joy, and a great sense of accomplishment to be able to do so.

Make your own Holiday Calendar

November 25, 2020November 25, 2020 by B_and_T

We love this holiday calendar inspired by Wundertuetchen. Check out our youtube video and follow the step by step below to guide you through this delightful project.

MATERIALS
Tiny kraft paper bags (easily available online)
Twine
Markers
A long stick
Sticks or brown pipe cleaners for antlers
A hole punch
Scissors
Poms

Bonus materials:
-Pine or holly
-Glue gun or tacky glue

Fold back the corners of the kraft bags.
Draw eyes on the kraft bags and glue on a pom for the nose.
Label each of the bags with a day of the month counting down to your celebrated holiday.
Punch a hole in the top of the bag.
Cut varying lengths of twine and tie to each of the bags. Now tie the twine on the long stick.
Glue the pine or holly to the ends of the stick for some extra festive cheer.

Now it’s time to fill the bags with stickers, chocolates, jokes or positive affirmations! Happy crafting!

Member’s Spotlight – Blaise Cannon

November 25, 2020December 2, 2020 by B_and_T

Blaise is a marketer, architect and devoted dad to Atlas. We learn more about his incredible career and loved hearing about his parenting tips.

Describe a typical work day?
I wake up at 5.30 to jog in my neighborhood, I get my exercise out of the way because when I get back my son Atlas wakes up. After breakfast, we head to Big and Tiny at Second Home in Hollywood. Once I drop off Atlas in the Big and Tiny pods, I settle in the courtyard or on the roof at Second Home to check emails and catch-up on any overnight or earlier timezone developments.

At 1pm I go to the Big and Tiny pods and feed Atlas his lunch after he wakes up from his morning nap. I then focus on an afternoon of work before picking up Atlas at 4.30pm and driving home. I love to cook for the family and once Atlas is in bed, I catch up with my partner or we like to watch TV with a glass of wine (we have been watching the shocking the NXIVM documentary on HBO Max).

What would be your tip(s) for any new working parent?
The biggest game-changer for me, especially during the most intense pandemic restrictions, have been to just own the time where you can’t get much done. My partner is an essential worker, so I was at home with our son for the most of each day.

At first, I was trying to work and parent simultaneously during his wake windows. Perhaps others are better at multitasking than I, but I found I wasn’t doing either working or parenting very effectively and it left me feeling down on myself and generally disappointed with how each day was going. I resolved to just be a parent during the time when he needed engagement.

Rather than having the laptop out while he tried to get my attention from the floor, we went on walks and I gave him (mostly) undivided attention. I found the additional work time that was required in the evening or at night did not significantly increase, and I felt much better about the work I was doing and the kind of parent I was able to be.

What are your favorite things to do as a family in Los Angeles?
We love packing a picnic and walking around the CalTech campus in Pasadena with Atlas in the stroller. There is a lovely pond filled with turtles that is a big time attraction for the kids and the architecture and grounds are a peaceful respite for the adults.

How do you take time for yourself? (When you get time for yourself!)

I don’t get too much, but my partner is really supportive of me paddling out to surf at least once per week. Usually I set out before sunrise on either Saturday or Sunday to meet up with a buddy or two somewhere in West Malibu for a few waves. I can still usually be back home in time for lunch and an active afternoon with the family.

How do you deal with failure?
In the abstract, I usually beat myself up about it for a time and then resolve to never let it happen again. More tangibly, I usually seek some intense physical activity like a hilly trail run or a marathon surf session. Compensating with a bit of time in isolation is also helpful for me, a kind of monastic reflection period, whether through those physical activities or a long drive–something along those lines.

What has been your biggest achievement professionally?
While working at an architecture firm in Paris some five years ago, I got to contribute to the team working on the Louvre Abu Dhabi, which opened at the beginning of 2018. In particular, I developed an algorithm that optimized the design for the Grand Vestibule, the first gallery in the procession of the museum, and the result is what you see built there today! I even have a tattoo on my right forearm to commemorate its completion.

(Courtesy of The National)

What are your hopes for 2021?
I hope that we will get a chance to be a family out from under the dark cloud of pandemic. Our son was only out of the hospital for about six-weeks when LA went into lockdown. While I definitely look forward to the day when we can eat at a cafe or ride public transportation, not having family nearby has been particularly complicated since he hasn’t got to spend much time at all with relatives. I am most hopeful that will change in 2021.

Member’s Spotlight – Kate Insley

November 18, 2020November 25, 2020 by B_and_T

Kate is a designer and mother to Penelope. She has been a member of our Silver Lake location since we opened! From the UK and having lived in NYC, she had to find a support system in LA. Read on to find out more!

What do you do?
I design retail spaces, installations and displays, mostly for fashion brands, along with managing their visual merchandising needs. I am also working on a personal project that I am hoping to launch in Spring 2021!

You’re from the United Kingdom, what took you to Los Angeles?
Short answer is my husband is from here. We met in New York, but I was living in London at the time. I moved to the US in 2017, and lived between NY and LA. I prefer the open space, the nature, the healthier lifestyle and the weather in Los Angeles, whenever I was getting on the plane back to NY, I was always sad to be leaving the LA climate. For those reasons, we decided to have our baby in LA and set up life here, instead of being back and forth.

For you, what’s the key difference between the UK and USA?
So many things, but the one thing I like most about living here, is the opportunities the US has to offer. There is an openness to being able to follow, achieve and succeed in what you do. You can wear many hats, instead of being pigeon-holed to one. People here have many jobs, different jobs, jump industries etc., and that’s normal and accepted more easily I think.

What is the biggest challenge of being a working mother?
Having some downtime and time to yourself to recharge.

What is your biggest achievement to date?Probably my daughter and my husband. Making a wonderful and healthy little girl is everything, watching her grow, learn, discover and love is so beautiful.

Bringing up a child far from home can be tough, what support groups or organizations have your turned to?

My support group is Big and Tiny and friends I have made who also have children similar ages to Penelope. I honestly don’t think I would have returned back to work if Big and Tiny didn’t exist, and don’t know what I’d do without it. I have never felt separated from my daughter by working from Big and Tiny (she was only 4.5 months old when I returned back to work full time), so being under one roof is great, her being close to me was, and still is important, so I could breastfeed her, and see her when I was available. With both my husband and I working, I prefer this way of balancing work and child.

How do you take time for yourself? (When you get time for yourself!)
I do Pilates twice a week, to rebuild my body and my strength and breath. I also enjoy taking a bath, reading, relaxing, meditating after Penelope goes to bed each night. Those few hours are crucial to my wellbeing and energy for the next day.

What’s been your biggest learning of 2020?
To keep things more local and not to travel as much, taking more care of our Planet. I have also loved reduced working hours and spending more time in the day with Penelope, right now I am working part-time, and that balance is great.

Member’s Spotlight – Baja B

November 17, 2020November 25, 2020 by B_and_T

Beja is a professional photographer and mother of two. We talk about how she got into photography and the all important balance between pursuing her passion and motherhood. Check out her work here.

How would you describe your style of photography?
If I had to define it, I’d say my style is organic, genuine and connected. I’ve always had an admiration for classical painters, and I’ve spent a lot of time at the MET in New York City. I adore rich, deep, and bold colors; smooth but with texture.

How long have you been taking professional photos and how did your passion start?
I’ve been a professional photographer for 15 years, working in portrait, documentary, event, and production photography in New York City.
My passion started after graduating from college – I quickly discovered that tourism wasn’t my calling. Along with the uncomfortable realization that followed: what to do instead? I had also just moved to the US, relocating to Brooklyn, NY from Budapest, Hungary. I worked as a nanny for a family, and the dad, Dan Cordle, happened to be the kindest human I’ve ever met and an amazing photographer. He quickly became my mentor, teaching me to shoot and develop my own film. Eventually, I transitioned to digital photography and started freelancing as a professional.

What childcare support do you rely on when working in the field?
I have 2 young children: aged 6 and 3. My first grader is currently in a pod and my youngest is the happiest at Big and Tiny.
The only reason I’ve been able to return to work, and find the energy to pick up my camera again is thanks to Big and Tiny. She is excited to join her friends every morning and literally never wants to leave! Big shout out to all the wonderful teachers – they are the best!
And last but not least, I adore Keltse, the owner and creator of Big and Tiny – she gently reminds me, when I feel a bit lost in this pandemic world, of gratitude.

What are you most proud of professionally?
I feel the proudest and happiest in the moment I deliver the final portraits to my clients. I print and frame my own work, and I need to see their reaction when they open their package! It’s incredibly fulfilling. Having spent so much time with them, and their images, they’ve become friends.
A very close second, is receiving an email from a client, years after working together, telling me how much happiness they get looking at the art on their wall.

How do you confront failure?
It’s hard, but I accept it. I remind myself that giving up is the failure.
We recently got a book for our six year old called ‘A Kids Book About Failure’ by Dr. Laymon Hicks – it’s a good read for grown ups too. A quote from the book became our new mantra: “Failure is not final, it’s a part of the process.” If you don’t try, you won’t fail but you won’t grow either!

Children are not the easiest subjects to photograph! What is your top tip?
My top tip is to surrender and let children be themselves. I believe success in capturing children’s portraits depends on your mindset.
Prepare yourself to surrender and take your ego out of it – especially with younger kids. It is not in their nature to stay still; frozen in their movements. Instead, make a game of taking their photos. Get them to laugh. Be extra silly, they won’t be able to resist. Remember, our children are a reflection of us. If we feel good and at ease, they will too!
More practical tips: plan your shoot around their schedule. Avoid disrupting nap time, and use the time of the day when they are the most energized. Make sure they aren’t hungry (or hangry) and plan something fun afterwards, too. Ice cream is a great motivator. Last but most important: let them wear comfortable clothing, that you won’t mind getting dirty. They are kids, getting dirty means they had fun.

What’s your motto in life?
Always choose kindness.

Big and Tiny Stories- Antonia Malim (Née Plunket)

January 21, 2020November 18, 2020 by B_and_T

Antonia Plunkett is a hospitality consultant, from London living in Echo Park, LA with her husband, son Jack and their dog Kodak. She was brought up in France where her love for food and beautiful establishments started. She has worked in the hospitality industry in London, Hong Kong, Italy and LA. She loves meeting new people and helping them realize their dreams.

How are you finding being a new Mum?
I’ve been very lucky to have an easy baby, which enabled me to go back to work very quickly. Perhaps too quickly! I was back after 11 weeks and in the end decided I needed a bit more time to be at my best and as productive as possible. On the whole it has been an incredible journey and it helps I have a really supportive husband.

Did you have a support system after giving birth?

When you’re pregnant there is a support system; and you are treated as this miraculous being. After the child was born, I struggled to find support; especially as I live so far away from my family. I wish there were more conversations about being a new Mom and so we can be more prepared about having this new identity.

As an expat and Brit working in the US, do you feel you are missing a support network of your wider family?

It 100% it takes a village. So I had to find my village elsewhere since I didn’t know many people in LA at first. Finally I found Big and Tiny which is a place I can get my work done, build back my confidence and find a group of like-minded parents.

How are you finding balancing your professional life with your new family?

Big and Tiny have helped me find a balance that I am really comfortable with. I don’t feel I have had to make sacrifices at all. I know Jack is in good hands and if anything happens I am just next door. We, working Mums, always feel a certain level of guilt either to our bosses or to our child. Places like Big and Tiny are vital to bringing about an end to that guilt.

As a hospitality expert, is your industry a nurturing place for a working Mum.

Yes and no. Yes because a lot of women work in my industry and therefore there is this general understanding of each other and our needs.

No, because it is very demanding as it requires late nights and working weekends. So at some point it becomes impossible for a mother to execute some of the roles offered within the hospitality industry.

Who I work with and my job role has evolved with my own personal situation and lifestyle. I definitely can no longer work for a snazzy nightclub like I did during my wild Hong Kong days!

Is being a mother really the most rewarding job in the world?

(Laughs) Yes and no, again. Yes of course. I’m learning everyday about being a mother and learning a lot about myself in the process. But for me getting back to work was really important, personally I enjoy being in a pressured work environment, meeting and connecting with people, and making things happen everyday.

Do you still find any time for you? To pamper?

Pamper? I wish. But I always make time after Jack has gone to bed to have aperitivo with my husband or to watch a current documentary. I feel a child shouldn’t 100% dictate what a family is doing; we can still go on culturally awakening trips together. Jack just needs to behave!

Oh and Big and Tiny do offer manicures and facials at work – which is a complete godsend.

Is child care expensive where you live?
Very. I was pretty shocked by the child care prices compared to the UK even. So I limit Jack’s time with a nanny. And I find it more lucrative for him to come with me to Big and Tiny, besides he is a lot more entertained there!

When you first returned back into a work environment did you realize that you had changed?
I was more emotional and burst into tears more (Laughs!.) – mainly due to lack of sleep. Other than that I felt more powerful, confident and grown up. I stood up for myself more, because I realized there are more important things in life. So I got rid of a lot of negative energy and negative people when I returned to work. Something I never had the courage to do before.

Members Clubs and Co-working spaces are your thing. Tell us LA in relation to London and beyond.

The LA landscape is one behind London when it comes to membership clubs. In fact some great spaces I’ve been to started in London and opened an outpost in LA. Such as Second Home, Soho House and the H Club.

London just does private member club really well and they’ve been around since the 1600’s – but they were stuffy gentlemen’s clubs then. But LA has integrated the work-life- wellness balance in such a great way, and therefore their co-working spaces are at the top of their game, they offer hotel like amenities and foster collaboration.

Should you ever get a chance for a date night, where would go?

You can’t beat getting a table at the Hollywood Bowl, sharing a bottle of wine and a platter of cheese over live music. One of my favourite restaurants is Cafe Stella in Silverlake. It’s a French Bistro and it reminds me of my time in Paris. Otherwise getting out of town to stay at the gorgeous The Colony in Palm Springs or an airbnb in Big Bear Lake for a date weekend is always on the radar.

The Best Co-working spaces for parents

February 25, 2019March 7, 2019 by B_and_T

By Goop Editor.

Do all parents want every day to be take-your-kid-to-work day? Depending on a million variables, the answer might be a reluctant “not so much” or an emphatic “hell yeah” or, more likely, something in the middle. But imagine a world in which we all had the option. What a game changer that would be for anyone who doesn’t have a regular job with regular childcare. Freelancers, part-timers, work-from-homers, the list goes on. Which is why coworking spaces with in-house childcare are an act of genius. But as great as the need is, they’re still not so easy to come by. There’s a gauntlet of regulation hurdles to jump that vary by state (and country), not to mention uncomfortably skimpy profit margins. Which is why we tip our mother/career woman hats to the crop of shared office spaces that have cracked or are working to crack that code.

P.S. We’ll keep updating this list as more coworking spaces with childcare options become available. Know of a great one? Shoot us an email at feedback@goop.com.

Los Angeles

The Jane Club

The Jane Club—as in, Jane Addams, the social worker, activist, ACLU cofounder, and Nobel Peace Prize recipient—has a clear mission: To “take care of the women who take care of everything else.” The separate childcare bungalow (it’s called the Nest, and it’s achingly cute), the hushed communal work spaces, and a calendar of inspiring on-site events, wellness classes, and talks only help the cause. It also doesn’t hurt that, set up in an Erin Fetherston–designed home and done in eye-pleasing neutrals, it’s breathtakingly beautiful. Founders June Diane Raphael and Jess Zaino promise more of the same at the new space down the block on Larchmont Boulevard, set to open in spring. Unsurprisingly, memberships are going fast, so book your tour sooner than later.

Brella (coming fall 2019)

The first thing to know about Brella is that its services, which are plentiful, will not be reserved for members alone. Meaning that everything from daycare to enrichment classes to a few hours of babysitting can be booked ahead on an app or on a drop-in basis. The second is that it’s predominantly a childcare facility. The shared workspaces, community events, and wellness classes are added perks for the parents. Get on the mailing list for the latest on opening dates.

Big & Tiny

The doors to the kids’ area at this Westside spot—where they have a swing, a ball pit, and tons of those cool vintage-looking wooden toys—have a little window parents can peek through without disturbing playtime. A brilliant feature if your mind keeps wandering back to your little one while you’re trying to get work done in the dedicated coworking space in the back (outdoor garden and phone booth included). Drop by for a parents-welcome class, drop off while you run errands (Costco is a hop and a skip away), or post up to work for up to four hours a day while the staff keeps children as young as three months old happy. They also host and plan themed birthday parties right on-site, which is a life hack in and of itself.

Bay Area

Hacker Moms

Besides having the coolest name, this 100 percent mother- and member-run collective acts as a support system, creative outlet, and proverbial village for women at various stages of motherhood or career. The Business Incubator is for anyone looking to pick up a new skill, explore, learn something. And the Failure Club is where members challenge themselves to tackle a specific goal—be it a blog launch, an Etsy shop, a novel—within a three-month period with fellow club members acting as both sounding boards and boosters. As the name suggests, failing (and picking yourself back up) is wholeheartedly supported. And yes, there’s on-site childcare.

Recess Collective

You don’t need to be a Recess member to huddle up in the cozy coworking space for a few hours while the kids are in the playroom under the watchful eyes of the well-trained staff. Nor do you have to be a member to sign up for a parenting or prenatal workshop (on everything from childbirth preparation to newborn care), a wellness class, or a group workout; they’re booked on an à la carte basis (and the staff will watch your kids for $12 an hour while you do your thing). But membership does have its perks: Arrange a drop-off so you can take care of errands or, you know, yourself.

New York

The Little Wing

We won’t bore you by listing the reasons the Wing is a genius concept, because you very likely already know. But to anyone who’s been living under a rock, the highlight reel goes something like this: exclusive events, on-site cafés, beauty rooms (plus showers), plenty of coworking space, and no boys allowed (except, you know, for actual boys who tag along with their moms). More locations are constantly in the works, and the SoHo space also serves as the pilot program for the Little Wing. The Crate&Kids–furnished play area is where members can take advantage of affordable, professional babysitting services, in addition to a roster of enrichment classes (for the kids) and workshops (for the ’rents), plus weekend open play (for the whole family).

Giocare

The “work” part of Giocare’s Work & Play program is an option only till 1 in the afternoon. But parents are masters at getting a lot done in not a lot of time. The “play” part borrows heavily from the traditional preschool experience, with supervised of songs, imaginative play, music, and crafts. The Park Slope location means that most errands are within walking distance should you opt for the drop-off preschool alternative program.

London

Third Door

The airy communal spaces, bookable meeting rooms, and business-building events are not geared specifically toward parents, but it’s no surprise that those with children flock to this place in droves. Inspiring, productivity-inducing environments with childcare built right in are not easy to come by. Month-by-month packages can be customized to allow for as much or as little time as you’d like in the nursery—a magical, well-staffed, toy-filled space modeled after the child-first principles of the Reggio Emilia method.

Cuckooz Nest

This cool, minimalist space was started by a mom. And you can totally tell because there’s a flexible membership option that allows parents to book both the coworking space and the daycare on an hourly basis, depending on what a particular day calls for. The space itself is airy and bright, with minimalist work stations and all the productivity creature comforts (coffee, phone rooms, etc.). The nursery staffers are all experts in the field of early childhood education, making dropping off the kids that much more pleasant.

Second Home

Of the four London and one Lisbon outposts of Second Home, London Fields is the only one with a Nursery Membership option. Meanwhile, all look like what we imagine a scaled-down version of the Google offices might look like—but chicer. Greenery is everywhere, there are outdoor spaces galore and food and coffee for days, inter-member collaboration is encouraged, and there’s space enough for teams big and small. At London Fields, the fittingly adorable daycare center is managed by the experts at local preschool N Family Club. (Second Home members get a foot in the door if they wish to apply.) For those of us stateside, a Los Angeles location is set to open this year (no word yet on whether kids will be allowed at this one).

Austin

The Hive

On-site kid care you can reserve online, a spacious light-filled café (with snacks! and free Wi-Fi!), a shaded outdoor space with picnic tables—the Hive is a working-parent’s dream. And like many of these multiuse kid- and parent-friendly spaces, the Hive came from humble beginnings: New mom Shelly Weiser struggled to manage a graphic design career while juggling an eighteen-month-old and a newborn. And so the Hive was born. Need to dial in to a conference call? Pop into one of the private rooms. Looking for somewhere to meet for coffee? There’s a spot for that, too. Oh, and did we mention that when lunchtime rolls around and you’re on deadline and your kid is as happy as a clam running around the playground? There are food trucks outside.

Washington, D.C.

Elemento

Elemento is a moms’/dads’/kids’ sanctuary. What used to be a drop-by space nestled in Capitol Hill is now members-only—because the place is so damn popular. And with all of the many different levels of memberships comes access to ample perks: chic and airy working spaces, family-friendly social events, an inside play space (with monkey bars, slides, all the things to keep kids busy during those long D.C. winters). Plus, you can find skill-building classes, quiet areas, and a “room with balloons” that kids go absolutely apesh*t for. Coffee in the a.m., beer and wine for happy hour—it’s all here. (Pro tip: Take advantage of the “date-night” hours.)

Two Birds Inc (coming soon)

Dreamed up by business school friends and new parents Kelsey Lents and JP Coakley, Two Birds (launching in the spring of 2019) is essentially a family-friendly version of WeWork. The premise: a place you can drop off the kids for the day, learn new things, manage your work-life-baby balance, meet like-minded people, and get things done. Which is exactly what one can expect to do at the new Tenleytown, D.C., location, which is just as conducive to settling into one of the pump or nursing lounges as it is to scheduling a meeting with clients in a conference room. And there’s a little something for everyone: parent-focused educational classes, like sleep training, and community-focused events, like happy hours.

Chicago

Evolve Her

The future is female, and Alicia Driskill of EvolveHer is counting on it—her dreamy, community-driven loft space in the River North area of Chicago is women-only. She’s got it all here: event areas, phone booths, exposed-brick conference rooms, stocked kitchen, career-building workshops, panels, networking events, meditation sessions, and other weekly happenings—there’s even a chic vanity room with plush velvet seating for quick touch-ups and such (you know, should you need to dash off to a dinner after). And for the mamas? Convenient pumping rooms and access to childcare on the regular thanks to a partnership with the neighboring Sprouts Academy.

All Over

Quilt

Quilt is a company focused on “get to-gathers.” It’s built a massive following of like-minded individuals, entrepreneurs, and other creatives who come together over one common interest: community. Whether it’s connecting with inspiring women in your city over a chai-and-chat or linking up with other professionals at a coworking session to help get in the zone, there’s a gathering happening in a real home in a real neighborhood near you. Got kids? No problem. Become a host and you, too, can start leading coworking sessions right in your own living room. Genius.

Honorable Mention: The Riveter

Freelancing? New business venture? Balancing kids? Looking for camaraderie? Whatever it is that you do or want to do, the Riveter is probably the place for it. And yes, it’s a coworking space in every sense of the term, but more than that, it’s a community. A community that’s conveniently taking over, with locations in LA, Seattle, and Austin and more coming (look out Dallas, Portland, Denver, Atlanta, and Minneapolis). And then there’s the space: open and inviting, modern and minimal, with curated shared working areas, local coffee on tap (it’s the little things), and all-around good vibes. New moms will truly appreciate that each one is properly equipped with a mothers’ room for nursing, pumping, whatever you need. And while there’s no on-site daycare available (yet?), the Riveter locations are open 24/7, so you can work when your unique schedule allows. Other perks: career-building panels, tech talks, wellness sessions, office workouts, yoga hours, and something called “cougars on computers”—we’ll let you marinate on that.

Time-Saving Hacks from #Momlife

November 29, 2018March 7, 2019 by B_and_T

Goop editors.

Occasionally motherhood can be summed up in a few words: wake the kids, make breakfast, get everyone dressed, leave, forget something, leave again. The ability to navigate all of that—or better yet, to navigate it all with dignity and grace and a modicum of sanity—is as much science as it is art. We asked a few of the women we know best (the ones we share an office with) for the tools (apps, products, coffee) they rely on to keep it all together—seamlessly.

KATE WOLFSON

EXECUTIVE EDITOR AND MOM TO SONNY, TWO

POPGRIP ROSE GOLD ALUMINUMPopSockets, $15

“My son is a big fan of watching videos of himself during meals. Aren’t we all? (Not stellar parenting, but it works.) Having a PopGrip on my phone means that I can stand it up wherever Sonny choses to take his dinner: the counter, his high chair, the dining table. It’s also a godsend when FaceTiming with his East Coast grandparents in the evenings. Coincidentally, it’s when he’s feeling the most energetic (witching hour is real) and running through the house at full speed—tables, chairs, and the dog be damned. The little grip allows me to aim the camera at him and clear the way at the same time.”

ONCE UPON A FARM WILD RUMPUS AVOCADOOnce Upon a Farm, $28 for an 8-pack

“Jennifer Garner recently launched these awesome organic, non-GMO, gluten-free, BPA-free, refrigerated (a big deal because so many pouches on the market are shelf-stable) baby food pouches. Sonny is almost two, so he’s definitely aged out of baby-food pouches as a meal. They do, however, make for excellent park snacks. He’s a fan of the Wild Rumpus Avocado, Just Right Oats, and Gold-y Mango flavors. And the pouches themselves are recyclable through TerraCycle, so I don’t feel like a total jerk.”

BIG & TINY, 1731 OCEAN PARK BLVD., SANTA MONICA

“The weekends are sacred in our family. It’s when the three of us get quality uninterrupted time together. A few times a month, we take Sonny to this adorable play space where he gets to hang out with other kids (supervised, of course), and we can either run errands (Costco!), get breakfast, or simply chill out in the little café area out front. There’s also a work area in the back if we need to drop in and answer emails during the week while he plays. The doors to the play area—where they have swings, a ball pit, and tons of toys—have a little window parents can peek through without disturbing play time. They also host and plan themed birthday parties right on-site, which is a hack all in and of itself.”

JORDAN CUNNINGHAM

SENIOR DIRECTOR, BRAND PARTNERSHIPS & SALES, AND MOM TO VIVIENNE, EIGHT MONTHS

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“I love going to Drybar. It’s one less thing I need to do in the morning, and it gives me extra time to bang out emails. So much of my job involves meeting with clients, so even though I’m still getting back into the groove, I need to look pulled together. I heard the Drybar founders are coming out with a massage app, Squeeze, soon, too.”

HATCH BABY APP

“Between sleep deprivation and crazy schedules, this app keeps me sane. You can keep track of feedings, diapers, sleep, weight, and height, but I focus on Vivienne’s feeding schedule. My husband, Chris, and our nanny have access to the app, so they never have to wonder when Vivienne had her last feeding.”

YUMI Yumi, starting at $35 a week

“We introduced Vivienne to solids a little before six months, and the baby-food delivery company Yumi is incredible. Each meal is made with fresh, organic ingredients, and the basic purées are a great way to get her exposed to new tastes. Since her diet consists mostly of breast milk, I just freeze whatever we don’t use right away. For everything else (diapers, household supplies, etc.), I rely heavily on Amazon so I don’t have to make trips to the store.”

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VINTNER’S DAUGHTER ACTIVE BOTANICAL SERUMgoop, $185

GOOP BY JUICE BEAUTY REVITALIZING DAY MOISTURIZERgoop, $100

“Once I had Vivienne, I knew I needed to simplify everything in my life, and that included having an arsenal of clean products that I know I love. I don’t have time to shower in the morning, so showering at night has become the norm. It also helps cut down on the time I spend getting ready in the morning, so I have more time with Viv.”

KATIE DIMATTEO

SENIOR DIRECTOR, BRAND PARTNERSHIPS & MARKETING, AND MOM TO STELLA, SIX, AND THEO, FOUR

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“I don’t have to spend time shopping, and the kids get something in the mail. Two birds, one stone. This easy-to-use subscription service makes stocking the kids’ closets a breeze.”

COZI APP

“My husband pulls more than his share of the weight—if he’s cooking, I’m cleaning. If I’m managing the kids’ schedules, he’s handling the car payments. I use the Cozi app to organize our family to-do and shopping lists. I’ll break out my shopping list by type: grocery store, big box, department stores.”

STARBUCKS APP

“My husband and I commute together, so I’ll place an order for our morning coffee as we’re backing out of the driveway.”

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“My secret weapon for getting out the door in the morning even faster. It cuts my drying time in half, allowing for a few extra precious minutes of snoozing when the alarm goes off.”

Interview to Keltse Bilbao, founder of Big and Tiny

November 25, 2018March 7, 2019 by B_and_T

The Best Indoor Play Spaces in LA

October 12, 2018March 7, 2019 by B_and_T

Red Tricycle by Shahrzad Warkentin.

This rainy winter continues (sob sob) and what feels like weeks of inclement weather has us all getting a little cabin fever. Thankfully we have some super cool indoor playspaces for kids that let them run, jump, play, and give their imaginations a workout (without driving you crazy). There are even a few spots that will keep you keep your sanity with coffee bars, workspaces as well as wine and beer options. Scroll below to check out our favorite indoor play space picks.

photo: Big and Tiny via Yelp

Big and Tiny – Santa Monica

This gorgeously-designed play space in Santa Monica not only offers a creative playground for kids 6 months to 6 years old to climb, swing and jump but they’ve also partnered with the School of Wonder to offer enrichment classes that will keep your kids happily engaged.

In addition to the play space, they have an on-site cafe plus the flexibility for working parents to get some work done while their kids are pre-occupied.

Open Play: Mon.-Fri. 9 a.m.-5 p.m.; Sat-Sun. 9 a.m.-1 p.m. (check the schedule on weekends as they sometimes close for private events.
Rate: Two-hour open play is $18; play passes are also available $80 for 5; $140 for 10

Insider Tip: There are various co-working plans that will give working parents access to a workspace, printers, WiFi, etc. while kids enjoy enrichment classes and activities.

1731 Ocean Park Blvd.
Santa Monica, CA 90405
310-392-0113
Online: bigandtiny.com

photo: Wild Child Gym via Facebook

Wild Child Gym – Culver City

Wild Child Gym, mixes chill Hawaiian vibes with California cool that results in a fun, interactive, eco-friendly space complete with a “grassy” hill that feels more at like natural playspace than a busy metropolitan city storefront.

Daily classes are available for “Droolers” (newborn-5 months) all the way up to “Advanced Skill and Development” (5-7 year-olds), along with free play options, birthday parties, camps for kids and workshops for kids and for the whole family. But what we really love are their extended hours—perfect for working parents or those tricky school holidays.

Open Play: Mon.-Fri. 9:30 a.m.-6:30 p.m.; Sat.-Sun. 8 a.m.-7 p.m.
Rate: Per class price is $30 (based on availability) or choose a four-week session which includes one “Wild Play” drop-in class for $100. Become a member for $25 and receive discounts on parties, events and more.

9715 Washington Blvd.
Culver City
Online: wildchildgym.com

The Tree House – Tarzana

This indoor jungle gym lets your little monkeys climb and play like they’re outside all within four window-lit walls. The fully-padded structure features tunnels, and a winding slide that drops into a ball pit. There is also a pint-size merry-go-round and a separate play area for toddlers. The space is small, but there are plenty of cozy spots to sit back and relax while still getting a bird’s eye view of the entire play area.

The space also has an indoor picnic area where you can bring in your own food and snacks to eat. Coffee, juice, and water are also available for purchase.

Open Play: Mon. 10-5 p.m., Tues.-Thurs. 10-7 p.m., Fri. 10-5 p.m.
Rate: Open play is $10 per child

Insider Tip: There are tons of great restaurants within walking distance along Ventura, like D’Amores Pizza, The Carving Board, and Wanderlust Creamery so you can grab a bite or sweet treat after play time.

18600 Ventura Blvd.
Tarzana
818-514-6278
Online: thetreehousetarzana.com

photo: Adventureplex

Adventureplex – Manhattan Beach

There’s adventure to spare here with a ton of energy burners including a basketball court, mazes, tunnels, climbing bouncy houses, gymnastic mats and plenty of playrooms. There’s not a ton of supervision happening, but that’s ok, as you’ll want to get in there and play, too. With a ropes course and rock wall for bigger kids (note: both cost extra), Toddler Town for wee ones and even a café when need to refuel, you just might be here all day.

Open Play: Hours vary for the play structures and Toddler Town, so make sure to check the website.
Rate: Admission is $12. You can also sign up for a Flex Membership and get unlimited drop-in play for $29 per month, $19 per month for siblings

Insider Tip: Adventureplex offers Parents’ Night Out every Fri. and Sat., 5:30 – 9 p.m. for kids 3 and up if you want to get an evening away the kids will be begging for. Cost is $30, and $20 for siblings and includes dinner.

1701 Marine Ave.
Manhattan Beach
310-546-7708
Online: adventureplex.org

Maddie’s Playhouse – Northridge

Dress up, painting, building with blocks, utilizing motor skills through soft play and storytelling-the name of the game here is child-initiated play in all its many forms. It’s filled with bounceable, slideable and jumpable inflatables, an obstacle course, playhouses, dress up and more. We love it because it caters to a mix of ages, and at over 4,000 square feet has room for the jumping the bigger kids (up through about age 7) need and also a toddler area where small fry won’t get run over. With so much stuff to do and play with and explore, kids won’t get bored, and they will be eager to come back.

Open Play: Tues.-Fri.; 10 a.m.-6 p.m.
Rate: $12 per child, $9 for siblings, (under 2s are $8). Multi-visit passes and memberships are available that will save you money

Insider Tip: Brent’s Deli is a few doors down for lunch. It’s one of the best and most authentic delis in town, with pickles that will live on in your memory. There are four kinds of fries for kids to pick from, a kids menu for B, L or D, and don’t leave without sampling a black & white cookie.

19559 Parthenia St.
Northridge
818-772-7529
Online: m.maddiesplayhouse.com

photo: The Coop via Facebook

The Coop – Multiple Locations

A play space for kids…and adults? The Coop is the place that doesn’t sacrifice the sanity and patience of parents for their kids to romp around in a gritty and overly cutesy play space. Free wifi and a cappuccino bar are just some of the perks for adults in this modernized play space that looks like an ad for Phillipe Starck for IKEA. Kids will love sliding into the ball pit, the touch-sensitive, luminescent dance floor, and dress-up play. There are three locations in Studio City, Redondo Beach, and the newest spot in Woodland Hills.

Open Play: Each location has different hours but all are open Mon. – Fri.
Rate: $12 per child

Insider Tip: The Woodland Hills location has a full cappuccino bar and free parking.

Locations: Woodland Hills, Studio City & Redondo Beach
Online: thecoop-la.com

Snooknuk – Larchmont

This colorful play space showcases an enchanting mural and life-size tree that transports tots to a magical landscape usually found in fairy tales. Artwork is filled with positive images families will appreciate, and music exclusively scored for Snooknuk sets the perfect tone for a happy day of fun. Many parents bring kiddos in just for a simple afternoon of play or play dates, while others come for classes but still love the convenience of having a play area to entertain siblings while they wait. Don’t forget to indulge in their on-site Caffe Luxxe gourmet coffee, pastries or paninis while the kids enjoy the play area.

Snooknuk offers a supervised play option so you can sit on the patio and get work done while the kids play. This space also offers loads of classes, plenty o’ snacks and is on the Larch. Your whole inclement day is now planned. While most of the activities are ideal for the 6 and under crew there are some classes available for older kids, up to 12 years old.

Open: Mon.-Fri. 9-6 p.m.; Sat. 9-5 p.m.
Rate: Day passes are $8, or $5 per sibling

Insider Tip: You’re on Larchmont Blvd., which means you have approximately 6 coffee options, a retail shop for kids, a resale shop for tots, a vegan and raw food spot, a vegan and GF bakery plus bookstore and two toy stores all in walking distance. Welcome to parenting paradise.

506 N. Larchmont Blvd.
Mid-City Los Angeles
323-498-5258
Online: snooknuk.com

photo: Peekaboo Playland

Peekaboo Playland – Eagle Rock & Bel Air

Who says your kids can’t play and learn? Peekaboo Playland is the progressive and artistic indoor play space for your kids’ creative energy to flourish and grow. Let your little one explore the boundlessness of their imagination in the 3,300 square feet building. One of our favorite things is the separate baby space upstairs, where crawlers can explore without getting trampled.

Open Play: Mon. – Thurs. 10-6 p.m., Fri. 10-5 p.m.
Rate: $10 per child over 12 months, $8 for siblings and babies 6-12 months. The Bel Air location is $11 and $9 respectively

Insider Tip: Oinkster, Swork, and Four Cafe are all right nearby so you can get tasty lunch and coffee to go and eat at picnic tables here when kids need to refuel. There’s a second location in Bel Air.

2030 Colorado Blvd.
Eagle Rock
323-255-1400
Online: peekabooplayland.com

photo: Pamper & Play

Pamper & Play – Westwood

The unique twist here is that they understand that kids need to play, but parents need some pampering too. So you get a break while the kids (ages 18 months and up) can enjoy some supervised play (parents or caregivers have to stay on the premises). They also have Parents Time Out sessions for 4 hours on Sat.

Open Play: Make an appointment or walk-in Mon.-Fri., 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Rate: $13; Supervised play cost $25 for two hours for kids under 3 and $20 for kids over 3

Insider Tip: During supervised sessions, free coffee and wi-fi are available so you can relax, work, or catch up on browsing your favorite parenting website.

2279 Westwood Blvd.
Westwood
310-441-0797
Online: squareup.com/store/pamper-and-play

photo: Giggles N’ Hugs via Yelp

Giggles N’ Hugs – Multiple Locations

This children’s restaurant and play space have spots in Glendale and Woodland Hills full of castles, pirate ships and dragons – oh my! Kids can have loads of fun here running, jumping and playing, and there’s even plenty o’ live entertainment on tap. Play all day and pay based on mobility. Unlike most other spots, this one is open on weekends for free play, although they do host parties then as well so it can get crowded.

Open Play: Mon. – Thurs. 10:30 a.m.-8 p.m., Fri. 10:30 a.m.-9 p.m., Sat. 10 a.m.-9 p.m., Sun. 10 a.m.-7 p.m.
Rates: Big kids are $14, $11 for sibs and $8 for non-walkers

Insider Tip: It’s a restaurant (with organic, kid-friendly food). So lunch doesn’t have to be pre-packed or cobbled together out of chips and pastries. And did we mention the wine and beer?

Locations: Topanga & Glendale
Online: gigglesnhugs.com

Jump ‘n Jammin – Arcadia

Tube crawls, web crawls, barrel rolls and giant slides are just a few features of Jump ‘n Jammin’s multilevel play structure. This is a spot that is as much fun for the 3-year-old as for the 13-year-old (and Mom and Dad, too). And the best part? They don’t automatically close all weekend for parties and have other locations in Mission Viejo and West Covina.

Open: Mon.-Thurs. 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Fri.-Sat. 10 a.m.-8 p.m.; Sun. 10 a.m.-6 p.m.
Rate: $14.95 for the first child (plus adult); toddlers are $6.49 plus adult. Additional adults are $3.95

400 S. Baldwin Ave.
Arcadia
626-821-9120
Online: jumpnjammin.com

photo: The Awesome Playground

The Awesome Playground – Highland Park

The aptly named spot offers a vast array of indoor and outdoor fun for the little ones up to 10 years of age, featuring a 60-foot inflatable obstacle course, a giant slide, an indoor crooked house and even a race track for the aspiring Andrettis. They also offer Parent’s Night Out at $25 for the first two hours; $10 per each additional hour.

Open Play: Mon.-Fri. 10 a.m.-6 p.m.
Rates: $10 per child. Monthly memberships are $39 or you can purchase a 10 play pass for $60 that never expires

Insider Tip: If you’re here because it’s too hot to play outside (not too cold), they often break out an inflated water slide to cool kids down on broiling days. So don’t forget the change of clothes!

5158 York Blvd.
Highland Park
323-256-2467
Online: theawesomeplayground.com

photo: The Great Escape Club

The Great Escape Club – Atwater

It’s not just a clever name. Here the monkeys can go bananas and the mommies can get down to business, each with their own dedicated space to do so. With a sweet little courtyard connecting the two diametrically different havens, arrive with a potty trained independent walker, kiss them good-bye, and off you go. The “Escape Artists” (aka awesome kid watchers) will take it from there. You leave for the land of low voices and lattes. This space is best for the under 5 crowd.

Open Play: Mon., Wed., Fri., 10 a.m.-6 p.m. and Tues., Thurs., 11 a.m.-6 p.m.
Rate: $12 for kids; $10 for additional sibling

Insider Tip: Hit Proof Bakery afterward for outstanding treats on the way home. Win-win.

3197 Glendale Blvd.
Atwater Village
323-407-6284
Online: thegreatescapeclub.squarespace.com

photo: Kids World Family Fun Center via Yelp

Kids World Family Fun Center – Simi Valley
Even big kids who think they’re too cool for indoor playspaces will beg to spend the day here. This entertainment spot raises the standards with virtual games, climbing tubes, slides, foam ball launchers, zip lines, basketball court, American Gladiator style arena, a video game floor with motion activated games and old-school arcade. But it’s not just for big kids, there’s also a Toddler Corner designed for children newborn–3 years old for the little ones to learn and play in their own gated space.

Open: Tues.-Sun. at 10 a.m.-8 p.m.; Sat. 10 a.m.-9 p.m.; Sun 10 a.m.-7 p.m.
Rates: $11.99 admission for kids 24 months-15 years; kids under 2 are $5.99; siblings are $10.99 (weekdays only). Grip socks and arcade games are extra.

Insider Tip: Ahem, with beer (did we not mention that the café serves beer?) and video games, it satisfies everyone and is why we say it’s worth the drive for a rainy day excursion.

618 Lindero Canyon Rd.
Oak Park
818-338-8888
Online: kidsworldla.com

We Rock the Spectrum Kid’s Gym – Multiple Locations

We love this unique gym that caters to children with autism and special needs creating a safe and warm environment where they can play and strengthen their muscles and skills. While kids can just have fun, you’ll know that everything here actually serves a positive purpose: swings promote balance, the zip line is for stress release and joint and body relaxation, the trampoline builds core strength and play structures, sensory-based toys and arts & crafts areas all work on motor, social and eye-hand skills. It’s for kids at every spot of the spectrum, and kids of all ages and abilities will have a ball. Rates and hours vary by location. Some spots also offer drop-off care.

Open Play: Mon.-Sun. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. (Call ahead on weekends to confirm openings)
Rate: $14 per child (siblings $12)

Insider Tip: The whole place is cleaned top to bottom daily with only green products, so the planet will stay as healthy as our kids.

Locations: Tarzana, Redondo Beach, Studio City, Woodland Hills, Glendale, Santa Monica & Lawndale
Online: werockthespectrumkidsgym.com